How I Discovered Personal Development – Part 2 September 2, 2010   

 

This article is continued from Part 1.

 

In that very moment, standing in that church parking lot, I knew the job was mine, and I knew this would be what I would do for the rest of my life. After all, I had a premonition…a vision…I saw into the future.

 

The next day, I went in for an interview which turned out to be no interview at all. It was Jolene's (Jetta girl) brother-in-law Curtis, who was the President of the company, his business partner Jeff, and me standing in the doorway of their office just hanging out and talking. After a few minutes Curtis said, “I like you. If you want the job it’s yours.” I accepted, was hired on the spot and started the next day.

 

The company I went to work for sold “season passes” to seminars that were about every 8 weeks or so in Dallas. Speakers like Les Brown, Roger Dawson, Jim, Rohn, Jack Canfield, Brian Tracy and others would come into town every so often and anyone who had a season pass, could attend the seminar. Now looking back, I realize what a great idea it was. But at the time, it was just a job.

 

My job was inside sales. I sat in a tiny cubicle, cold calling car dealerships and any other company with sales people who needed motivating. I HATED MY JOB! I was miserable. I was so scared to pick up the phone. And worse yet, Curtis and Jeff were no more than 10 feet away from me all day. The office was tiny and they could hear every goof-ball word I said, which made me a total wreck.

 

And to add insult to injury, I don't recall any real training. I do however remember a script taped to the wall in front of me. It was a list of “come backs” or suggested ways to over come any concerns I may have gotten from a prospect. I can remember thinking to myself, Do people really say this stuff? And are there really people in the world dumb enough to play along?

 

For example, one of the things we heard often on the other end of the phone was something like this: “Sounds interesting. Could you send me some information.” My canned reply, which was taped to the wall and in black and white was: “You know, I could, but the last time I tried that I got stuck in the fax machine.” Yeah, I know, right? I could never make myself say it. So instead, I said something even lamer, but at least it wasn't a canned script. Perhaps if I read the script, I would have sold something. But I just couldn't do it.

 

I don’t know that I ever did make a sale. I don’t recall. I guess that's a NO. Had I, you'd think I would remember. I may have repressed all of those memories. But one day I had a bright idea about how I could motivate myself to get some sales. There was only one other inside sales person in the office. LaShonne Newsome sat right behind me in her little box. She was great on the phones. Totally fearless. But I wanted to go head to head with her anyway. So I walked over to the Presidents desk and told him about my brilliant idea.

 

“Curtis, I got an idea.” I said. He looked up at me curious, but remained quiet. You know I’m not doing so well on the phones, but I gotta good idea to help me out, and, it may help her out to (pointing to LaShonne who was busy on the phone…probably selling something). How about I go to the office supply store and pick up two bells…. you know those bells you see on the counter of cheap hotels, that you ring for service?” (He was looking at me like I was a total moron at this point.)

 

“Um hmm,” he said.

 

“Yeah, well, I’ll go get two of those bells,” I explained, “One for me and one for her, and every time we make a sale, we can ring the bell. It will be real motivating and exciting.” Good grief.

 

I stood there like a dog begging for a treat. He sat there completely emotionless with a blank stare on his face. I wanted to drop dead. Finally he said, “Well if you feel like it will help, do it. I don’t care. Feel free to go get your little bells during your lunch.”

 

As corny as I felt, I was still pretty excited about my bell idea. So, during lunch I made a trip to Staples, bought two bells (with my lunch money), drove back to work and placed the bells in their new homes; one on my desk, and one on LaShonne's.

 

That was perhaps one of the stupidest things I have ever done. RING! RING! RING! One of the bells rang all day long. Hers! I never got to ring my bell. Sometimes I would play with it, to see how far I could push down that little thing on top, without it ringing. All day long I kept hearing two things… her stupid bell, that I paid for, and me telling myself, You're an idiot. And that horror that I created, lasted for days, with me never ringing my bell (at least from making a sale. I did ring it after we closed a couple of times, just to see what it felt like, but never for the purpose for which it was purchased).

 

Every day felt like a year. I wasn’t making the company any money. I was a drain on their bottom line. I was just waiting to get the ax.

 

One day, Curtis came over to my desk and said, “Hey Chris, you gotta minute?”

 

“Yeah,” came my reply.

 

“Let’s go for a walk,” he suggested.

 

Ok, here we go! I’m getting fired. I can’t believe this. I’ve never been fired before.

 

When we got outside the building he stopped, turned around and said, “Chris, I want to start training you for outside sales.” I was stunned. I expected him to fire me, not give me a raise and a different position. Come to think of it, perhaps he was trying to get me on commission and off the hourly drain. Anyway… I couldn’t help myself. I laughed out loud! “Outside sales!?” I blurted, “I can’t sell anything on the inside! What makes you think I could sell anything outside?”  Then came the reply and the act of kindness that would indeed lead me to my professional purpose.

 

“Chris, you have everything that you need to succeed in life. You’re a good looking guy. You have great people skills, and you're easy to work with. You know what your problem is, though?” He asked. “This,” he said, pointing to my head. “You got software issues. Your hardware is great. But you need to reprogram your head.” Then he handed me something. “These are audio tapes from some of our past seminars. I want you to take them home with you. Listen to them in your car, and see if that doesn’t help you.”

 

Inside this little cassette holder were some of the greatest speeches they had ever had. But there were two tapes in that box that literally change my life forever. Read part 3 here.

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  • Ferdinand

    Thats funny Mr. Hughes! Do you still have that bell?

  • Ferdinand

    Thats funny Mr. Hughes! Do you still have that bell?

  • Deantaber09

    wow! to think a millionaire got his start selling passes to personal development seminars! that’s a BIG clue .

  • http://www.cshughes.com C.S. Hughes

    Deantaber09: Tony Robbins says: “Success leaves clues!” Thanks for your comments! CSH

  • Candgsweet

    God does chart the course of life events.

  • http://www.cshughes.com C.S. Hughes

    Candgsweet: In deed He does! CSH

  • Dolores Mannis

    Oh CRAP! So now I have to WAIT for “Part 3 !?!” Lol :)

  • http://www.markhibbitts.com MarkHibbitts

    I love this. Really funny! I’ve also done sales on the phone (still do) and would much rather meet and talk to people face to face. Love your writing CSH!

  • Mladybiker54

    thanks chris this one really hit home, I sure do know those feelings and have made myself start reading the self hlp books again starting with jeff olsons, who i had the pleasure of seeing last month…………….reprogramming the soft ware is the answer.

  • Sandra grant

    I was thinking the exact same thing, Dolores.

  • Jnlytton

    Cliff hanger?

  • deanna

    My bell is not ringing either because sometimes i still have to come out of the box–it is not due to thinking iam a failure it is because i am not sure of my self i know i can do part of it but am just plain scaried (mispelled) it what my problem not even if they say no–just cant walk into that business —thank you for the inspirations they are getting me to where i need to be–deanna

  • Ninaf2010

    Thanks C.S.Hughes, for this past week has been a tough one for me, down on my roller coaster, but in the middle of my despair I laugh out loud yesterday, and today I feel that I can catch my next breath by reading your story and know in my heart that failures build you up, we do not think so but you are an example and hope for many.

  • Rugby06

    What are the names of those 2 tapes again?

    • http://www.cshughes.com C.S. Hughes

      Rugby06: Self Esteem and Peak Performance by Jack Canfield. CSH

  • RJStratton

    Those words he said to are so true. Everybody has the potential to be successful and they have all the tools at their disposal, so why aren’t they! It’s in the programming, their software, and they just need to update their software and progamming. Change the way you think and your philosophies and your attitude will go from zero to hero, from failure to success. You attitudes affect your behavior in your day to day life. Slight Edge Philosophy! Keep those pearls of wisdom and nuggets coming. RJ Stratton

  • Sandy

    Wow Chris!! I love your story!!! I love everything you write!!

    • http://www.cshughes.com C.S. Hughes

      Sandy: Thank you! :) CSH

  • Doylee85

    I’ve read that the Japanese character for crisis is made up of two characters. One means danger, and the other means opportunity. Crises are decision points. If I make the wrong choice or judge wrongly, then there is danger. If I make the right choice, then there is opportunity. I’ve also learned that confusion is my mind warring with itself. When I have a choice to make, and I am inclined to do the improper thing, my mind clouds the issue with confusion. So, when I become confused, I look for the choices placed before me. I bring them out into the open. Then I am able to think more clearly and the right choice is obvious. I love how words can give me insight into how to untie the knots that I tie myself into, when I’m trying to fool myself.

    • http://www.cshughes.com C.S. Hughes

      Doylee85: Thanks for adding your voice and experience to the conversation. Excellent comment and I look forward to reading your next one. CSH

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  • Juanita

    Hughes, I love these stories.bit they keep you hang till your next post.
    But really these hit home. Nobody knows I’m scared talking to new people and especially sales.
    I need to work on personal development, thank you so much for you experiences, I sure can relate.
    Juanita

    • http://www.cshughes.com C.S. Hughes

      Juanita: Thank you for your feedback! CSH

  • JoyR – PA

    I am getting preparing for thenext 60 days of success. this is make or break for me and I gotta show me that I can do it. your story is a great stimulator. I have motivated myself to walk talk and do my goals. listening to your story reminds me that I am on the right path of success. I can’t wait til part 3. even though I know how the story ends. LOL

  • Isabel Ward

    Thanks for sharing your stories, Mr. Hughes! They help me get out of my own head for a while and l am being motivated to take myself to greatness! I look forward to reading more!

  • Miguel Cortez

    Be there too…. It like your tell my story…. but different times and place… :)

  • Mark Schlenker

    I remember when I worked in the copier industry, I used to go to my boss’s all the time with ideas on how they could “improve” the way they were running things. I would do this in everything from paperwork to sales presentions and everything in between. When I think about it now I realize that I was quite arrogant and out of line, me with my 2 – 4 years of sales/consulting experience going to managers and even business owners who had been in the industry for 20 – 40 years. LOL At the same time I think about the fact that I have a natural aptitude for analysis, systems flow and recognizing hick-ups in the flow of communications and human relationships. That’s why I was so good at making global recommendations to large and small companies when it came to copiers and printers. I could litterally see, on an intuitive level, where the break downs were and where they needed to make changes to increase productivity. But that was another life and I am now using those gifts and tallents in another way, peoples lives…

    • http://www.cshughes.com C.S. Hughes

      This is cool Mark S: I really appreciate all your awesome comments. Keep it up! CSH

  • Holly S

    Like I said…still haven’t put this great book down!